Nairobi will become the heart of World Wide Marriage Encounter during the month of September 2011. First, there will be the Panaf (African regional secretariat) meeting which will be held at St Therese Girls training center in Karen between September 12 to 18.
His Eminence John Cardinal Njue will preside over the opening mass to be celebrated at 10am on September 12. Secondly, the International Ecclesial Team (IET) Tony and Cathy Witzak with Fr Emile from the USA who are the current head of the movement world wide will be offering a new enrichment program to the African region on 9th and 10th titled ‘Love and Respect’.
The events will reach their climax with the celebration of a community mass to be held at Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Church at Ongata Rongai at 10am Sunday the September 18. The fifteen African countries who embrace the movement will be represented each by their ecclesial teams comprising of a couple and a priest.
Each of our 17 dioceses embracing the movement will be represented during this mass, which will be presided by His grace Archbishop Boniface Lele of Mombasa Archdiocese.
The theme of the Nairobi meeting is “COMMITMENT THAT LEADS TO EVANGELIZATION”
But what is this movement called World Wide Marriage Encounter?
Many of us in the church today must have had of World Wide Marriage Encounter. This is a lay movement that enjoins the two sacraments of matrimony and the Holy orders with a mission to evangelize love as per Christ’s commandment “Love One Another as I have loved you” John 15:12. The movement promotes the growth of spousal love based on perpetual decisions to love in order to be loved. It is open to married couples, priests and religious.
The Servant of God, his holiness the late Pope John Paul the II while addressing a gathering in 1998 remarked; “I place much of my hope for the future in Marriage Encounter”.
The movement strongly believes that the church of Christ is firmly founded at home, the small church and hence the building of strong faithful homes is key to strengthening faith and evangelization. Once the family is evangelized, the whole church is evangelized.
The movement is 50 years now since the 1960’s when the Spanish Jesuit priest Fr Gabriel Calvo initiated special talks to his parish parents in an effort to contain the source of many street children who kept flocking to his parish in need of food, love and comfort that they lacked at their parents homes. The talks had dramatic effects on couples involved and changed their homes to be havens of love for both themselves and their children. They became popular in other parishes and were later to spread to English speaking America and Europe.
In Kenya, the movement is here courtesy of the late Michael Cardinal Maurice Otunga who experienced his weekend in America during the 1975 Eucharistic Congress in Philadelphia. He was so touched with the experience that he decided that it was good for the church in Kenya. Indeed, he worked so hard that in 1978, he brought in some Irish couples with their children and priests who pitched camp in Kenya for three months to train Kenyan facilitators. Since then, the movement has grown from the Archdiocese of Nairobi and it is now to be found in 17 diocese.
Encountered couples are to be found across all spheres of our church and they give testimony to harmonious relationship that is warm and fulfilled. Encountered couples and priests have one thing in common; they have endless love for one another and are strong pillars and source of evangelization. Their unique system of daily dialoguing technique enables them to have a systematic method of resolving any emerging issues before them and turn their differences into opportunities of building their togetherness.
It is a system that enables the couples to reflect deeply on the worldly way of living differently as they are equipped with the Godly plan of matrimony based on the gospel teachings which must be lived daily. The couples becomes the sacraments to each other on a daily basis. The priests and religious are able to see the sacraments through the eyes of the married couples and hence understands in a different dimension the meaning of matrimony. They also understand the interpersonal relationship which they encounter in their own parish houses, community houses or the parishioners themselves.
It becomes a wonderful opportunity for them. To use the words of Prof James Dobson “…it proved to be one of the highlights of my life. I just wish that everyone who trusts my opinion would now accept this advise; attend a Marriage Encounter Weekend at the earliest opportunity”.
World Wide Marriage Encounter in Kenya has sponsored the inception of the International Engaged Encounter, a complimentary movement for premarital counseling which ideally should be experienced by all Christians before sacramental marriage. We have also sponsored the Retrouvaille movement to take care of our hurting marriages.
By becoming hosts to this important conference, it is our hope and desire that the whole of our church will become more aware of evangelizing the family. We are called upon individually to play our part in bringing the plan of God for our lives a little closer to others by playing our roles fully. Let us welcome our guests with open hands and hearts.
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